There is no way that we can put into words the way that God loves us. It is love beyond logic and description. It is impossible for the left brain to comprehend God’s love. Paul in Ephesians 3:14-19 prays for us to comprehend that limitless Divine love. Just as Pavlov’s experiment of conditioned response is true, so we acquire an elaborate library of conditioned responses. For example, we often criticize in others what we don’t like in ourselves. Some conditional reflexes are as normal and natural as a blush. Harmless or beautiful, we are far more conditioned than we realize.
It is much easier to act like a Christian than to react like a Christian. We can play a part. But reactions are much harder to fake. So much of Christ’s teaching focuses attention on reconditioning our reflexes. In Luke 6:27, Christ’s commands us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us, to do unto others as we would have them do unto us. There is a gap between what this passage says and what we often do. When we love people like us, we are not fulfilling the Gospel. We must love those who hate us. Persecution becomes a catalyst for prayer. Hatred inspires love. We must convert curses to blessings.
How did Jesus say “Father, forgive them” when the soldiers are nailing Christ to the cross? How did He respond with grace when surrounded by disciples’ ignorance and the Pharisees’ arrogance? Love conditioned His reflexes. The love of God is not so much of a left-brained concept as it is a right-brained concept called unconditional love.
In Luke 22:54-62, we see a dimension of God’s love. When we fail, we can learn to discover dimensions of God’s love and grace and be transformed! Peter failed Jesus when Jesus needed him most. Jesus looked at Peter after his denial. When you gaze into someone’s eyes, you see their soul and they see yours. Jesus gave Peter a graceful look. Jesus always met people at the point of their greatest vulnerability. If Jesus had called out to Peter, Peter would have been arrested. Instead, Christ gave Peter a “grace-filled look.” Jesus’ gaze said to Peter, “Look at me, Peter! I forgave you before. Before you even denied me, I forgave you. I haven’t given up on you. We still share this mission.” And Jesus made eye contact with the disciple who denied Him. I don’t know what memories of sin and failure are etched into your memory, I don’t know which mistakes have formed a cage of guilt in your life, but I do know this. God hasn’t given up on you. He can’t. It is not in His divine nature. Our core value is to love people when they least expect it and least deserve it. That is the way Jesus treated people. He touched lepers, befriended prostitutes, spent time with Samaritan outcasts, and ate with tax collectors and sinners. He met people at the point of their greatest vulnerability.
Here’s the amazing thing about God found in Romans 5 “…while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” My translation is this: when we were at our worst, God was at His best.” It’s hard to understand something of which we are incapable. The love of God is an amazing thing. It doesn’t react to the situation. It loves people when they don’t deserve it and don’t expect it. I wonder sometimes if when we love someone who doesn’t deserve it, we assume that it is an approval of their bad behavior. Do you think that Jesus wanted to condone the actions of the adulterous woman in John 8? No. But it didn’t keep Him from loving her when she least expected it and least deserved it.
Is there someone that you need to forgive? It would be a shame hear all this about love and not put it into practice. What would happen if all of us went out this week and we determined to try to love people when they least expect it and least deserve it? What if, in place of reflexively judging people when they sin, we love them at their moment of greatest vulnerability? Here’s my guess, If the church loved people in that way, you wouldn’t be able to keep people away. Unfortunately, the church can often be the most judgmental, pretentious place on the planet. We assume that somehow we have to pretend to be perfect. The church needs to be a safe place where we can reveal the worst about us and still know that we are going to be loved.
The love of God is something that only God can reveal. As we know Him intimately, we begin to respond with His unconditional love. Let God love you. Gods love is faithful, constant, and it is there for you today.